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3. Self-management: pause tools

Emotional Intelligence · 32 pages source format

Create space between stimulus and response. Breath, walk, draft-then-wait, ask for time.

What you'll learn

  • Pause rituals
  • Draft delay
  • Repair

Install a pause

Example: no reply to heated Slack for 10 minutes; write offline first.

Do this now

Choose one pause rule. Use it 3 times this week. Log outcomes.

Pro tip. “Let me think and get back at 3pm” is professional, not weak.

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